gstlal_calibration_aggregator: Making this generic for any IFO

calibhandler.py: Updates to monitoring of calibration, including ability to keep trying to reach kafka server if unavailable at start-up.

lal_sensingtdcfs:  New element in gstlal-calibration to solve for the time-dependent correction factors of the sensing function

lloidhandler: aggregate max SNRs from each IFO rather than across ifos - Fixes weird correlations in SNR heat map - addresses request to provide gstlal background for Virgo

- the header files in the lalinspiral are a total mess, and as I clean them
  up I'm discovering other codes that have been omitting some headers
  because they were being pulled in from lalinspiral files.  this probably
  won't be the last time I have to adjust things before the dust settles.

inspiral.py : Added dummy method to FakeGracedbClient for compatibility with constructing skymap dags

gstlal_compute_strain:  Option to use timer in lal_insertgap to prevent pipeline from falling behind real time when running in low latency.

according to the injection sets.

lal_insertgap:  Work in progress.  Committing now because I can't access shared memory on LLO for testing at the moment.

lal_insertgap:  Added option to time input buffers relative to real time in order to avoid falling behind.

calibration_parts.py:  lower resampler quality for lower latency and lower computational cost.  Also edits to exact kappas solution.

Added additional latency montioring to calibration pipeline. Exposed timestamp property in lal_latency.